First, let’s get clear about what withholding can look like. Because withholding isn’t JUST the inability to poop. It can be:
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✦ Leaking or smearing
✦ Requesting a diaper to poop in
✦ Consistent pooping in pants
✦ Pooping anywhere but the potty
✦ Chronic constipation leading to withholding
✦ Anxiety or behavior changes when the urge hits
✦ Holding poop in for days (or even weeks)
My protocol for resolving withholding works. Period.
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It works so well that I now am consulting with pediatricians, gastroenterologists, and children’s hospitals. I’ve devoted my life to helping families like yours resolve this heartbreaking and frustrating problem.Â
Why pediatric advice often falls short...
I know you’ve tried everything. Rewards, consequences, yelling, bribing, begging. I know you’ve probably fought with your spouse. I know you’ve scoured the internet looking for help. I know you’ve probably been gaslit by doctors who don’t know what this is. I’ve helped thousands of families resolve withholding — and I know most pediatricians don’t truly understand it. You’ve probably been told:
✦ “Don’t worry about it.”
✦ “Just put them back in diapers.”
✦ “Use Miralax.”
Spoiler: none of these work for withholding.
AÂ bit about my protocol...
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This course is the exact protocol I use with my 1:1 clients -Â suitable for all ages, including neurodivergent kids.
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Withholding is a muscular reaction to anxiety, not a behavioral issue. That means:
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âžś We DON'T use reward charts, special phrases, meditations, or potty routines. There are no words that will help resolve this. I’m sure you’ve said all the words already. Â
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âžś We DOÂ recondition the anus to release with ease when the urge strikes.
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The protocol uses specific, over-the-counter medications and supplements to address the physical and emotional components of withholding.
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If you book a consultation then the pooping solutions course is included in your purchase.
If you dont't need a consult then you can just purchase the course on it's own
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What this is not..
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✦ Not “just getting a poop in the potty”
✦ Not a quick behavioral fix
✦ Not based on generic pediatric recommendations
You can’t fix a muscular problem with behavioral approaches
Why I Can Help
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You’ve likely tried everything: your pediatrician, a GI specialist, behavioral therapy, even psychology. While these professionals are wonderful, they often don’t fully understand withholding.
I do. And I can help your family finally move forward.